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Planning for incapacity

Dear Liza: My dad recently passed away and he and my mom had no will.  I am the only child and we have had all the bank accounts changed to my moms name and me as beneficiary but I don’t really know where else or what else (will or power of attorney) I should get.  Now that your mother’s just got you to take care of her if she gets sick, you should absolutely get her to sign a Durable Power of Attorney for Property and an Advance Health Care Directive. Both documents can name you as her Agent, the person who can pay her bills or make medical decisions if she’s unable to do so.   You said that she’s healthy now, and that’s great, but all of us get sick now and then and accidents do happen.  A Will is also a good idea, since that will make it easier for her to leave you her assets without your having to go through probate. (When one spouse dies, probate’s not usually necessary.)  All of these documents can be done inexpensively at www.nolo.com. Here’s the link to the Durable Powers of Attorney forms.

Letters documenting Incapacity

Dear Liza: My 91 year old mother had a stroke in April. Her living trust designates my brother as Medical Power of Attorney and myself as Financial POA.   Her lawyer is asking for letters from two doctors stating our mother is mentally incapacitated before he can talk to both of us about her trust.   Why would a lawyer ask for them? Wasn’t the point of the trust to make everything hassle free?  Your mother’s lawyer is asking for letters from two doctors stating that your mother is incapable of managing her own affairs because, most likely, the trust states that you and your brother can act as successor Trustees only upon your mother’s incapacity. The trust probably also states that incapacity is to be determined by two letters from physicians stating, under penalty of perjury, that your mother is incapacitated. Many trusts are drafted this way. The idea is to protect your mother from having her powers as Trustee taken away unless she really can’t manage her own affairs.  Ask the attorney to provide you with letters for the doctors to sign — that shouldn’t be a big deal if, in fact, she isn’t able to manage.

What’s a conservatorship?

Dear Liza: A friend of mine recently had a stroke and cannot sign her name, nor make an X, and her conversation is garbled. She doesn’t have a Will, a Living Trust, or a Durable Power of Attorney. How can we get something in place to take care of her financially? It sounds like you are going to need a conservatorship for your friend. This is a court proceeding where a judge appoints a responsible person or organization (that’s the ‘conservator’)  to care for another adult (that’s the ‘conservatee’) who is no longer able to care for himself or herself or manage his or her finances. Here’s a link to the California Courts website on conservatorships. If your friend had signed a Durable Power of Attorney for Finances before she had that stroke, you wouldn’t need to go to court–which is why a Durable Power of Attorney is such an important document. Conservatorships are generally handled by elder law attorneys, and sometimes (but not always) by estate planning attorneys.  California Advocates for Nursing Home Reform (CANHR) has a good directory of elder law attorneys. Hope this helps.