But let’s get one thing clear: It’s not critical that the state where the couple live have legalized same-sex marriage, nor that they get married there in order to claim immigration benefits. Ever since last year’s Windsor decision by the U.S. Supreme Court, a same-sex marriage in ANY STATE OR COUNTRY WHERE IT’S LEGAL has been enough to support the non-citizen’s application for a green card. (See Nolo’s article, “Same-Sex Marriage Now a Basis for U.S. Lawful Permanent Residence (a Green Card)” for more on this.)
This simple truth makes it downright puzzling to see an article like “Worries lessen for Virginia gay immigrants, who can now marry” in the Washington Post, by Pamela Constable. If I didn’t already know better, I would have come away from the article thinking that the Virginia-based binational couples profiled were in an absolute trap until Virginia legalized same-sex marriage – that they were unable to get the foreign-born person a green card (lawful permanent residence) based on their relationship.
The article describes the situation of a Richmond couple, for example, one member of whom is from Paraguay, as follows: “because . . . the two men could not marry without starting over and moving to another state, they faced constant financial, legal, and emotional strains.”
But, but, but . . . they could’ve traveled to another state or country that allows same-sex marriage months ago, and held a wedding without doing anything close to “starting over!”
States vary in what they require of couples who want to marry there, of course. Nevertheless, in California, Hawaii, New Mexico, and most of the other states where same-sex marriage is legal, you can get married with no residency requirement and minimal or no waiting period, immediately after receiving your marriage license. (See Nolo’s “Chart: State Marriage License and Blood Test Requirements” for more information, as well as “Where Can We Marry?” by the organization Immigration Equality.)
Constable quotes a member of another binational couple profiled in the article as saying, “This news came just in the nick of time,” before the non-citizen’s work visa ran out. Guys, Virginia is a quick trip away from Maryland as well as Washington, DC. Neither impose any residency requirements before marrying, and their waiting requirements are a mere few days after getting the marriage license. I’ll bet they’ve got many lovely wedding venues, too!
The article does mention that some binational couples in Virginia have already married in DC or Maryland, but you’ve got to read pretty far down to catch that. And I get it that having to travel far from one’s home base and bring friends along, too, would be a royal pain. So the news from Virginia is definitely good for binational couples there – it’s just not as monumental as it sounds.