Picking Guardians: It’s hard

Dear Liza: My husband and I just can’t seem to get around to writing a Will because we can’t decide who to name as a guardian for our two young children. I don’t like his sister’s husband; he isn’t comfortable with the city where my sister lives. My mother is perfect for right now, but we are worried that she will be too old ten years from now, when she’s 75 and our daughter is 15. We know we should do something, but we don’t know what to do. Any ideas? So, here’s the deal: you are right, you SHOULD do something. And, actually, it sounds like you do know what to do. If right now your mother is the perfect person to be the guardian, get that Will done, and name your mother. You can revisit this in 3 -5 years, and, trust me, you most likely will anyway.  It’s a much better idea to have a Will in place, even if it isn’t going to be perfect forever, than to have nothing written down at all.